La Fete d’engagement in French or Haflat Khoutouba in Arabic.
We were honoured by an invitation to a Moroccan engagement celebration a couple of weeks ago…
It was an intimate family gathering with dance and good food.
Laaziza – thank you and your family for the hospitality and opportunity to celebrate with you
and take/publish these photographs!

Laaziza in ‘Henna Dress’

She was sitting still since 1.30 pm till around 8 pm! But she was happy and smiling…





Ali, a young gentleman who spoke several languages with funny mistakes.
Like when he talked about his brother Ashrah, Ali said ‘my daughter’…
You’re a cute little man! It was fun sitting next to you!

Before and after eating you are offered water to wash your hands…

We had yummy, tender chicken with olives…
You eat with your right hand only.

Tender meat…oh, it was good!

Watermelon was perfect dessert!

Thank you Laaziza!
We wish you and your future husband all the best in your life together!
I asked a couple of questions because I know you are curious to know too…
In Western it’s common to move together even if you’re not married. Are you moving together now or after wedding? Do you move to your future husband’s home or do you rent/buy a new place to live in?
“Here, you cannot move if you are not married. Now, we are married, but haven’t done the wedding. Which means, I will officially move after the wedding. And there is no issue if we meet even before the wedding since we are married. Yes, I will move to my husband’s home which he will rent for now.”
How do you prepare for your wedding? When are you getting married? Are they going to be traditional as well?
“We are getting married in November 2010, in shaa Allah, (if GOD Willing), And I do have to prepare my traditional outfits that we call in Arabic (Kaftan, Takshita…)
Yes, I love Moroccan traditions and outfits, so it will be traditional as well.
Bride’s family will celebrate their daughter alone and the groom’s family will celebrate their son alone and will come next day to take the bride to their home. Celebrations are all night until early morning.”
You remember my post Moroccan bachelors seek wives who work.
I asked Laaziza what’s her opinion about the situation here in Morocco.
“I do agree with Farid Laafraoui, life has changed and became more expensive than before, both men and women should be willing to help each other financially. Money is not everything in this life. We make money and not money that makes us.
One hand does not clap, so woman should be modest and pro-active with her husband and help him build their house, future, and their kids’ future together and step by step. We don’t have to live luxurious life but we can, together, set our goals in life and work together to achieve them.”